Self-control is more than just resisting temptations. It's about mastering your impulses and aligning your actions with your deeper values and long-term goals. Understanding and managing the impulses that drive your behavior is key to achieving this harmony.

Self-Control and Identity

Your identity...

In the quest for personal improvement, many of us have been conditioned to believe that willpower is the key to success. Whether it's sticking to a new diet, pursuing a career goal, or even developing a running habit, the common advice is to "just push through." However, real transformation might no...

Transformation isn’t about making small changes—it’s about a complete paradigm shift.

Welcome to the Fundamental Shift.

We all face universal struggles that, though deeply personal, connect us all. Stress, anxiety, self-sabotage, and disconnection from our goals can seem like insurmountable barr...

Overcoming resistance to change isn't just about adopting new behaviors. It's actually about fundamentally altering the underlying lenses through which we view ourselves and our capabilities.

Identity shifting is a profound process that targets these lenses—the ingrained beliefs and rules that defi...

Are you trapped within the confines of your "comfort zone," which is really just a cycle of familiarity dictated by your subconscious? This comfort is often a misnomer—it doesn't truly represent peace or fulfillment but rather a safe familiarity that hinders growth. Today, we delve into the power of...

Success isn't solely about external achievements—it's about how these achievements align with your deeper values and contribute to your overall well-being.

By shifting your internal metrics from external accolades to internal fulfillment, you can transform not just your achievements but the very es...

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I got to talk to my good friend Johnny King on his podcast: Becoming Kings Podcast.​ We did a deep dive on how to change self in a counterintuitive way.

It's not always obvious that self is actually something you can edit. But it's possible and it...

I enjoyed being interviewed by Gib Gerard on the Intelligence for Your Life Podcast. We had a deep discussion about the elements of profound transformation.

Listen to the full interview from the Intelligence for Your Life Podcast here.

We also discussed why willpower is important, but isn't alw...

In this episode of the Fundamental Shift podcast we have a fist fight at a gun show. Two men, both deeply interested in safety, take very different stances on how to achieve that goal. One, having been mugged and beaten before feels as though having a gun will offer him safety. The other man, losing...