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Anger has its place. It is there to move us. It tells us things aren't right. But we don't want to get lost in anger. We need to be conscious of it.
Compassion means: Deep awareness of the suffering of another coupled with the wish to relieve it.
There are two phases to turning anger into...
Worry has become an epidemic. We seem to almost always have a background sense of worry. Worry means to feel uneasy or concerned about something; to be troubled; to cause to feel anxious, or distressed.
All worry is the same thing and we need to learn what it really is: An irrational...
What is the definition of form? I'm not sure I've seen as many different definitions for a word before. On dictionary.com there are twelve different definitions before moving into forming and other variations of the word. So what I'll do is try to tell you how I mean it here...
...A post about impermanence.
Pain comes when we try to hold on to things that can't be held onto: relationships, jobs, hopes. In holding onto those ideas, we are not free to appreciate the true quality of being. We aren't able to appreciate that everything is change. We try...
Meditation is the realization of this moment. The "practice of meditation" is the sitting down to work on this before it becomes fully natural to live that way. To abstract it further, we can use anchors such as counting, visualization, and pointed awareness to help bring our attention to our...
In this post we widened the definition of an itch to include not only physical itches, but also emotional and mental bothers as well.
How can an itch be beautiful? Diving into the feeling without judgment allows us to experience itches in a different way. Energy then actually becomes...
What are anchors? The dictionary defines an anchor as something that is the source of security or stability.
An anchor is a way to bring stillness into the everyday experience. It is a tool for stability, balance and more of what you want in your life.
An anchor can be anything that brings you...
When is it okay to think?
When something makes you angry, there are two healthy ways to deal with it. You can become still, or you can investigate the situation using your mind. So at what point should you use your mind or thoughts to work with a situation? You should use your mind when you are...
How can we "achieve" when stillness seems to oppose goals, the future, etc.?
Many people were interested in this question. That seems to be because we are much more interested in how the achieve things, rather than being interested in stillness. However, that misses the point. We need to learn...