Success looks great from the outside. You’ve built the career, hit the goals, maybe even surpassed what you once thought was possible. But instead of the deep satisfaction you imagined, you find yourself feeling… alone. You’ve crossed the finish line, yet the cheers are hollow, and the connections a...

You’ve worked hard, reached your goals, and achieved things others might dream of. On paper, your success is undeniable. But despite all of it, something still feels off. Instead of feeling fulfilled, there’s this nagging sense of dissatisfaction. Why isn’t your success bringing the joy you expected...

Leading Authentically from the Inside Out

We’ve all heard it, "Emotional intelligence (EQ) is a key ingredient in effective leadership." But this idea is often packaged in surface-level advice. Be empathetic, listen well, control your emotions. While these are essential, they miss a deeper truth.

How Changing Your Identity Frees Up More Time

Time management is often framed as a race against the clock, endless to-do lists, time-blocking, productivity hacks. But what if the real key to having more time isn’t in managing tasks better, but in changing your relationship with time altogether?

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Confidence is often thought of as a trait tied to achievements and skills, as something you gain by succeeding in your endeavors. Yet, true confidence is much deeper than external accomplishments. It’s rooted in your self-image and how you perceive yourself at a fundamental level.

The Illusion of C...

Ever wondered why personal growth feels so daunting for some?

It's not uncommon for discussions about personal growth to trigger discomfort, especially for those grappling with low self-esteem. Let’s dive into why this happens and how we can navigate this sensitive subject effectively.

People with...

In a Psychology Today article, Dr. Gregg Henriques delves into the concept of the "identity matrix," drawing from my experiences and work to illustrate how our internal lenses shape our perceptions and experiences, often limiting our potential without us even realizing it.

Gregg and I have often di...

We've all experienced rough patches, missed promotions, personal setbacks, or days when nothing goes right. Consider two individuals facing a job loss: one feels crushed and struggles to move forward, while the other sees it as an opportunity to pivot into a new career. The difference lies in resili...

Your identity shapes every part of your life, from your decisions to your relationships. It forms your "self-concept," a mix of beliefs, memories, and expectations that guide your actions and color your view of the world.

Understanding and addressing meaningful change requires examining three core ...