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Why Your External Struggles Are Likely Internal Distortions Nov 05, 2024

Many of us believe that the challenges we face, whether they’re stress at work, difficult relationships, or a lack of time, are caused by the external world. We convince ourselves that if only these external circumstances would change, we’d finally find peace and fulfillment. But what if the real ca...

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Procrastination Isn’t a Time Problem. It’s About How You See Yourself... Oct 31, 2024

If you think procrastination is just about poor time management, think again.

It’s easy to blame your schedule or distractions, but what if I told you that procrastination is more about how you see yourself and what you’re trying to prove to others? It’s not just a productivity issue, it’s a reflec...

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The Loneliness of Success: Why Achieving More Isn’t Enough Problem Oct 29, 2024

Success looks great from the outside. You’ve built the career, hit the goals, maybe even surpassed what you once thought was possible. But instead of the deep satisfaction you imagined, you find yourself feeling… alone. You’ve crossed the finish line, yet the cheers are hollow, and the connections a...

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Stuck in the Comparison Trap? Why Success Feels Meaningless... Oct 17, 2024

You’ve worked hard, reached your goals, and achieved things others might dream of. On paper, your success is undeniable. But despite all of it, something still feels off. Instead of feeling fulfilled, there’s this nagging sense of dissatisfaction. Why isn’t your success bringing the joy you expected...

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The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership Sep 17, 2024

Leading Authentically from the Inside Out

We’ve all heard it, "Emotional intelligence (EQ) is a key ingredient in effective leadership." But this idea is often packaged in surface-level advice. Be empathetic, listen well, control your emotions. While these are essential, they miss a deeper truth.

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How Changing Your Identity Can Unlock More Time and Reduce Overwhelm Sep 12, 2024

How Changing Your Identity Frees Up More Time

Time management is often framed as a race against the clock, endless to-do lists, time-blocking, productivity hacks. But what if the real key to having more time isn’t in managing tasks better, but in changing your relationship with time altogether?

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It’s Not What You Do, It’s Who You Believe You Are... Sep 10, 2024

Confidence is often thought of as a trait tied to achievements and skills, as something you gain by succeeding in your endeavors. Yet, true confidence is much deeper than external accomplishments. It’s rooted in your self-image and how you perceive yourself at a fundamental level.

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The Hidden Struggles of Personal Development with Low Self-Esteem Aug 13, 2024

Ever wondered why personal growth feels so daunting for some?

It's not uncommon for discussions about personal growth to trigger discomfort, especially for those grappling with low self-esteem. Let’s dive into why this happens and how we can navigate this sensitive subject effectively.

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Understanding the Identity Matrix: Insights from Psychology Today Jul 25, 2024

In a Psychology Today article, Dr. Gregg Henriques delves into the concept of the "identity matrix," drawing from my experiences and work to illustrate how our internal lenses shape our perceptions and experiences, often limiting our potential without us even realizing it.

Gregg and I have often di...

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