Do You Feel Like You’re Holding Yourself Back?

There’s a subtle, often invisible force that keeps many of us from living the lives we desire. It’s not external circumstances or lack of resources, it’s our own subconscious beliefs.

These beliefs, formed long ago to protect us, can now act as an in...

The Need for Constant Growth: Why You Feel Restless Even After Success

You’ve worked hard, achieved your goals, and earned the recognition you’ve been striving for. But instead of feeling fulfilled, you’re left with a nagging sense of dissatisfaction. A restless voice keeps asking, “What’s next? Is...

Many of us cling to certain beliefs and behaviors because they make us feel safe. These beliefs often develop early in life and serve a purpose, protecting us from perceived threats or discomfort. You may have told yourself, "I must always be in control" or "I can’t show weakness." At the time, thes...

Success looks great from the outside. You’ve built the career, hit the goals, maybe even surpassed what you once thought was possible. But instead of the deep satisfaction you imagined, you find yourself feeling… alone. You’ve crossed the finish line, yet the cheers are hollow, and the connections a...

In our pursuit of success, we often believe that maintaining tight control is the only way to achieve our goals. Micromanagement, obsessive planning, and the need to control outcomes are common behaviors that stem from this mindset. However, the paradox is that true success often comes not from hold...

How Changing Your Identity Frees Up More Time

Time management is often framed as a race against the clock, endless to-do lists, time-blocking, productivity hacks. But what if the real key to having more time isn’t in managing tasks better, but in changing your relationship with time altogether?

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Life is full of challenges and setbacks. Whether it’s a personal loss, a professional failure, or any unexpected hurdle, these setbacks can be disheartening and difficult to overcome. Developing a resilient mindset is crucial for navigating these obstacles and emerging stronger.

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Beliefs are not just passive thoughts. They are active justifications for how we navigate life. They form the lens through which we perceive our experiences and actions. For instance, if you believe you’re not capable of success, this belief will justify behaviors that align with failure.

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In a Psychology Today article, Dr. Gregg Henriques delves into the concept of the "identity matrix," drawing from my experiences and work to illustrate how our internal lenses shape our perceptions and experiences, often limiting our potential without us even realizing it.

Gregg and I have often di...