The Story We Tell Ourselves Becomes Who We Are

For as long as she could remember, Leah thought of herself as a people pleaser.

She was the one who always said yes, always avoided conflict, always put others first, because deep down, she believed that’s just who she was. It wasn’t a behavior to ch...

What if the greatest freedom you’ll ever experience comes not from finding yourself, but losing yourself?

Detaching from who you think you are might feel unsettling, but it’s the gateway to your fullest potential. We spend our lives crafting a self-concept. It starts with childhood labels...the sma...

Do You Feel Like You’re Holding Yourself Back?

There’s a subtle, often invisible force that keeps many of us from living the lives we desire. It’s not external circumstances or lack of resources, it’s our own subconscious beliefs.

These beliefs, formed long ago to protect us, can now act as an in...

For many high achievers, the journey toward success feels endless. Despite reaching major milestones, whether it’s a promotion, financial stability, or recognition, they still find themselves pushing relentlessly for more. More goals, more validation, more accomplishments. It’s as though no achievem...

Overwhelm. Indecision. Procrastination. These are struggles that almost everyone has faced at some point, and they can be incredibly frustrating. For many, it feels like no matter how hard they try, they’re stuck in a loop of too much to do, too many options, and too little clarity.

To make things ...

Ever wondered why personal growth feels so daunting for some?

It's not uncommon for discussions about personal growth to trigger discomfort, especially for those grappling with low self-esteem. Let’s dive into why this happens and how we can navigate this sensitive subject effectively.

People with...

Understanding the Role of Beliefs in Our Lives

Beliefs are fundamental to our existence. They shape our perceptions, drive our behaviors, and influence our emotions. Everyone has a set of core beliefs that act as lenses through which they view the world. These beliefs are formed by our experiences,...

As the creator of Identity Shifting, my journey is deeply rooted in understanding the intricate web of meaning and beliefs that shape our lives.

Like so many of us, I've faced formidable challenges: abuse, addiction, homelessness, and cancer (just to name some).

I'm lucky because my transformation...