The Blog

When Your Identity Becomes the Glass Ceiling: How Old Stories Limit What You’ll Attempt Sep 23, 2025

Most people think glass ceilings come from the outside: circumstances, systems, or other people’s opinions. But some of the most rigid glass ceilings are built inside your own mind, through the identity stories you carry.

These are the unconscious limits that whisper what’s possible, what’s appropr...

Continue Reading...
Why Meditation Alone Can’t Shift Identity (And What Does) Sep 16, 2025

Meditation has become one of the most popular tools for self-growth, and for good reason. It teaches presence, helps calm reactivity, and creates space between stimulus and response. But there’s a common misconception that meditation alone will transform your identity. That simply observing your tho...

Continue Reading...
The Power of Disidentification: How Seeing Yourself as a Construct Sets You Free Sep 02, 2025

Most people spend their lives thinking they are their identity: the personality they project, the traits they’ve been labeled with, the habits they repeat. They believe their likes, fears, reactions, and patterns define them absolutely. And because of this, every attempt to change feels like an assa...

Continue Reading...
You’re Not Bad at It, You Just Stopped Practicing Jul 01, 2025

Many people walk around carrying quiet, limiting beliefs about what they’re capable of.

  • “I’m not good at public speaking.”
  • “I can’t set boundaries.”
  • “I’ve never been good with money.”
  • “I’m just not creative.”
  • “I can’t handle conflict.”

On the surface, these sound like reasonable admissions...

Continue Reading...
Emotional Hangovers Are a Clue, Not a Curse Jun 24, 2025

What They Reveal About Your Self-Concept...

You’ve likely experienced it...an interaction that seemed small at the time, but hours later, you're still turning it over in your mind. You keep replaying what you said, or didn’t say. You feel tension in your body. You catch yourself mentally rehearsin...

Continue Reading...
Your Identity Isn’t Fixed, You Can Choose Who You Want to Be Right Now Apr 29, 2025

The Story We Tell Ourselves Becomes Who We Are

For as long as she could remember, Leah thought of herself as a people pleaser.

She was the one who always said yes, always avoided conflict, always put others first, because deep down, she believed that’s just who she was. It wasn’t a behavior to ch...

Continue Reading...
The Power of Awareness: How Seeing Your Thoughts Changes Who You Are Apr 15, 2025

You Are Not Your Thoughts, You Are Something Much Bigger

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, overthinking, or fear-based decision-making, then you know what it’s like to feel trapped inside your mind.

It’s as if your thoughts have total control over your emotions, your choices, and even your...

Continue Reading...
The Liberation of Losing Yourself: How Detachment Unleashes True Potential Feb 25, 2025

What if the greatest freedom you’ll ever experience comes not from finding yourself, but losing yourself?

Detaching from who you think you are might feel unsettling, but it’s the gateway to your fullest potential. We spend our lives crafting a self-concept. It starts with childhood labels...the sma...

Continue Reading...
Why Reinventing Yourself Feels Uncomfortable (and Why That’s a Good Thing) Feb 18, 2025

What if the discomfort you’re feeling isn’t a sign you’re failing, but proof that you’re evolving?

Transformation is messy, awkward, and even painful. But in that discomfort lies the undeniable evidence that you’re breaking free from the old and stepping into the new.

Reinventing yourself isn’t a ...

Continue Reading...
1 2