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Emotional Hangovers Are a Clue, Not a Curse Jun 24, 2025

What They Reveal About Your Self-Concept...

You’ve likely experienced it...an interaction that seemed small at the time, but hours later, you're still turning it over in your mind. You keep replaying what you said, or didn’t say. You feel tension in your body. You catch yourself mentally rehearsin...

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You're Reacting to Meaning, Not Reality May 20, 2025

You're Reacting to Meaning, Not Reality

Most of us think we’re responding to life as it is.

We feel busy, upset, ignored, judged, and we assume those feelings are facts. That the situation itself is causing our reaction.

But that’s not what’s really happening.

What you’re actually responding to ...

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You’re Not Broken: The Pattern Behind Emotional Cycles May 13, 2025

You’re Not Broken. You’re Patterned.

Most people assume their personality is fixed.

They’ll say, “I’m just bad with boundaries.”

Or, “I’ve always been an overthinker.”

Or, “That’s just how I am.”

But what if that’s not true?

What if what you’ve been calling “who you are” is actually just a set...

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How the Rule of Emotional Agility Can Create a Fundamental Shift Nov 01, 2023

Do you ever feel like you're walking a tightrope between preserving your emotional well-being and pushing for self-growth? You're not alone in this struggle. I understand how paralyzing this internal conflict can be. That’s why I want to share a simple yet profound rule that could instigate a fundam...

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