On the surface, trying harder sounds noble. It looks like ambition, discipline, or commitment. We’re taught that pushing ourselves is the path to success, that constant self-improvement is proof of our dedication. But beneath that drive, something quieter is often at work: a belief that says, “I am ...

Success is supposed to feel great, right? You’ve worked hard to get to where you are, maybe you’ve hit a major milestone in your career or achieved the goals you once dreamed of, but here’s the twist: success doesn’t always bring the fulfillment we expect. In fact, it can sometimes lead to an identi...

Take a moment to reflect on the days filled with either/or choices. It often feels like we're choosing between what we want to do and what we should do. For example, the early morning run vs. extra work, family gatherings vs. office deadlines.

These moments echo a zero-sum mindset, where gains in o...