Big Things From Little Changes or How to Have a True "Identity Shift"May 15, 2007
Why is it so hard to make big changes in our lives? We all seem to want things to be different than they are. We'd like to lose weight, make more money, be more organized, eat better. In this talk I point out a couple of ways to help bring lasting change.
One of the ideas many people hold is that we change once. People often feel we'll make one large switch, and then things will be different. I'll go on a diet for a little while and THEN I'll be the way I want. I'll learn a new investment technique and THEN I'll be wealthy. I'll clean my whole house and THEN I'll be organized. But in reality those changes rarely stick. To make changes stick we need at least two understandings.
First we need to realize that it is not one big change. It is a commitment to little choices over time that affect our lives in the long run. It's not one diet, it's choosing different foods over and over again. It's not working out for two months for beach season, it's committing to being healthy and fit going forward. And while these things may sound big and difficult, they are actually only done right now, and in small ways. Big change comes from little choices over time, not one big switch.
The other understanding we can use to make big change is to align our values with our goals. A diet is something we do temporarily. It isn't who we want to be long term. Instead, learn to think of yourself as a healthy person, or even better, an athlete. Once you change your mindset like that, supporting that idea of yourself makes all your food choices easy. It becomes a way of life rather than a temporary fix. Rather than seeing yourself as a disorganized person who needs to be organized. See yourself as a deeply organized person. Instead of seeing yourself as a month to month pay-check person, see yourself as an investor.
By aligning our values with our goals, and realizing that it's little changes instead of one big switch, we can make massive change in our lives, and those changes can last. These little changes lead to a total, transformative "Identity Shift."
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